Category: Lady Lawyers

It’s not easy being a lady lawyer. Even with efforts to increase diversity, women are underrepresented in the law. There aren’t a lot of guidebooks on how to break through the glass ceiling, navigate dating and relationships, and achieve financial independence. But there are plenty of good role models of women lawyers. We hope you’ll join the ranks of amazing lady lawyers. Kamala Harris, Michelle Obama, Ruth Bader Ginsberg, Sandra Day O’Connor, Elena Kagan, Sonia Sotomayer, Amy Coney Barrett, Gloria Allred, Janet Reno, Hillary Clinton, .

Ally McBeal, Ling Woo, Elle Woods, Kim Wexler, Maggie Lizer, Diane Lockhart, Alicia Florrick, Molly Carter.

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Financial Infidelity: Should Women Cheat to Avoid Being Cheated On?

Financial infidelity (keeping money secrets in a relationship) is strongly frowned upon – except when advising women. Instead, when discussing finances to an audience of women, the relationship advice is geared toward protecting oneself. This leads me to put on my Carrie Bradshaw advice column...

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Why Women Should Pay in Relationships

It’s a surprisingly controversial statement – women should pay in relationships. The notion that the man should pay is engrained in our culture. People usually bring up reasons like the pay gap and tradition. The difference these days is that we can’t assume anymore that...

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Money Relationship Problems? 5 Ideas to Stop Fighting

Coping with money relationship problems? It’s easy to say that we fight about money because it’s scarce. But unless your fight is about student loans, gambling or property, there’s a good chance that the fight is not about a make-or-break expense. Most of our fights...

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The Advantages of Dating as a Female Lawyer

My post about why it sucks to date as a female lawyer is the most popular post on this blog. But I don’t want to paint a pitiable picture of dating as a lawyer; there are also great advantages to dating as a lady lawyer....

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How Nice Girls Can Win

Why do nice girls finish last? Being “nice” is different than being “kind”, even though the two can look the same from a distance. Being nice is performing acts in order to get something in return. Being kind is treating people with compassion without any...

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Why Women’s Empowerment is Important

I often found myself thinking about why women’s empowerment is important during the Covid-19 pandemic. Everyone seemed to be treating women with kid gloves. My inbox tone was very gentle. The newsletters told me, it’s a big scary world and I shouldn’t feel bad staying...

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Why Dating Sucks for Female Lawyers

A money and power imbalance is why dating sucks for female lawyers. Couples often fight about money, particularly if the distribution of money is uneven. Money is a proxy for power, and power imbalances lead to disagreements. When the Woman Earns More Because of the...

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The Financial Life of Ally McBeal

When you think of the most famous attorneys – it’s a lot of men. Even famous fictional lawyers tend to be men – Perry Mason, Atticus Finch, Bob Loblaw. But there are also a lot of great female attorneys – real and fictional. And it’s...

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Why Female Attorneys Struggle Financially

Personal finance is different for each person, and that’s especially true for women lawyers. Factors like giant student loan debt, no work life balance, lack of financial confidence, the glass ceiling – are just a few things that make navigating finances as a woman attorney different from others.