Category: Financial Independence

Why aren’t there more lawyers pursuing FIRE? The Financial Independence, Retire Early movement may be difficult for lawyers who suffer from high debt loads and golden handcuffs. But financial independence is a worthy goal because so many lawyers want to quit their jobs and this gives them options.

How I Cured my Digital Addiction

How I Cured my Digital Addiction

My name is Lisa and I’m addicted to my smart phone. It wasn’t always this way. I got my first personal smartphone in 2013; that’s the year when it just tipped over to a majority (53%) of Americans owning a smartphone but it wasn’t as...

How to Change Your Life One Week at a Time

How to Change Your Life One Week at a Time

For many people, change is scary. But change is inevitable. The thing we can do is to get more used to it. Over a decade ago, I vowed to do at least one new experience every week (“one new thing a week” or ONTAW). I...

How to Become Luckier

How to Become Luckier

An acquaintance baked a cake, and implored us to take extra slices. So I did, to be nice. And she thanks me by commenting that I was really lucky that I didn’t have to struggle with my weight. Bear in mind, that I’ve known this...

The Ultimate Measure of Wealth Isn’t Money

The Ultimate Measure of Wealth Isn’t Money

We all intuitively know that money isn’t everything. When we daydream of a life of wealth – we aren’t thinking of ourselves alone in a room full of cash. Instead, we all regularly exchange money for things to build a rich life for ourselves. The...

What I Learned from my Worst Negotiation

What I Learned from my Worst Negotiation

Practicing law involves a multitude of skills – including analysis, communication, and negotiation. One would think that these skills would transfer easily to my real life. For instance, I’ve negotiated  a few settlements and thought I would be an excellent negotiator in real life. But...

most controversial personal finance advice

My Most Controversial Financial Advice

I started this blog in part because I thought internet financial advice was wrong or outdated or at least incomplete because it didn’t apply to someone like me. And without necessarily meaning to, my most controversial posts are the most popular because there isn’t much...

christmas without gifts

How A Christmas Without Gifts Changed My Life

Around this time, people start complaining about how stressful it is to shop for Christmas gifts. I just nod and pretend I have any idea what it’s like. I am fortunate not to have the stress of figuring out “perfect gifts” for my family, because...

bargain hunters are broke

Bargain Hunting Is Making You Broke

Most errands are boring, but shopping can be exhilarating. Stores have figured out how to convert the pursuit of saving money into spending too much. Bargain hunting is making you broke. When you think about it, shopping should be full and painful. You have to...